Ep: 09 The Strength to Keep Going: A Survival Guide for Hard Times
In this episode of Diamonds in Dumpster Fires, Melie dives into the messy, unpredictable reality of hard times and what it really means to be resilient. Spoiler alert: it’s not about having it all together. Drawing from personal experiences with divorce and layoffs, Melie gets real about how strength isn’t about standing tall without a wobble—it’s about getting back up after life knocks you flat on your face.
You’ll get a down-to-earth survival guide for those “what even is my life right now” seasons. We’re talking about accepting the pain (yes, it’s okay to not be okay), taking baby steps when big moves feel impossible, leaning on your people, and redefining what strength actually looks like. Spoiler: it doesn’t have to be pretty.
Most importantly, Melie reminds you that you’re not alone. God’s got you, even when everything feels like it’s falling apart. So take a breath, grab your coffee, and let’s talk about how to keep going when quitting feels easier.
Key Takeaways:
Life doesn’t send calendar invites for crises. They just show up.
Real strength isn’t about never falling; it’s about getting back up… even if it’s with bedhead and puffy eyes.
Accepting your pain is part of healing. Pretending you’re fine isn’t a personality trait.
Small steps count. If all you did today was get out of bed, that’s a win.
You need people. Isolation is a liar.
Redefine what strength means. It’s not always stoic and fearless; sometimes it’s just showing up.
Trusting God doesn’t mean you won’t struggle. It means you’re not struggling alone.
Celebrate the tiny victories. Brushed your teeth? Gold star.
There’s no such thing as failure—just feedback for growth.
It’s okay to feel both sad and proud at the same time. That’s called being human.