Ep: 10 Love in the Time of Dumpster Fires

Valentine’s Day can be beautiful, but let’s be honest—it can also feel like a giant neon sign flashing “YOU’RE ALONE” (or “YOUR LOVE LIFE IS A MESS”). In this episode, we’re breaking down the myths around love, the pressure of this holiday, and why real love—whether romantic or not—is way deeper than what Hallmark and rom-coms would have you believe.

I’m sharing my own experiences with Valentine's Day (the good, the bad, and the why-is-this-a-thing moments) and reminding you that love isn’t just about roses and grand gestures. It’s a choice. It takes effort. And sometimes, the most important love we need to focus on is the kind we show ourselves.

If this holiday is feeling heavy, know this: You are deeply loved, seen, and valued—right now, exactly as you are.

Takeaways from This Episode:

💔 Valentine’s Day can be tough, and that’s okay.
💡 The idea of “perfect love” is a myth—real love takes work.
💖 Love isn’t just a feeling; it’s a decision and a commitment.
👫 Community and friendships matter just as much as romance.
🙏 Self-compassion is a game-changer, especially in hard seasons.
🚩 Finding love is great, but it doesn’t magically fix everything.
👀 Seeing yourself the way God sees you changes everything.
🎁 Acts of kindness—toward yourself and others—create real connection.
💌 Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to revolve around romance.
✨ You are already loved beyond measure, no matter your relationship status.

So whether you're celebrating, ignoring, or side-eyeing this holiday, I hope this episode reminds you that love—real, lasting love—is so much bigger than a single day on the calendar.

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