Ep: 16: The Great Identity Crisis: Are You Living as Your True Self? with Kevin Livermore
Host: Melie Williams
Guest: Kevin Livermore, Author, Theologian, Content Creator
In this episode of Diamonds in Dumpster Fires, we dive deep into the topic of identity and authenticity with a very special guest, Kevin Livermore. Kevin is nearly finished with his Doctorate in Ministry from Fuller Theological Seminary, holds a Master’s in Divinity from Fuller, and has a background in business from USC. While he currently works in the corporate world, he also teaches at churches, creates online Christian content, and is the author of The Theology of C.S. Lewis: A Practical Summary of His Best Work.
Together, we explore the concept of the false self vs. the true self, how societal pressures push us into living inauthentically, and how we can break free from external validation to embrace our God-given identity. If you’ve ever found yourself striving for worth through achievement, approval, or possessions—this episode is for you.
Kevin shares practical wisdom on recognizing when you’re operating from a false self, re-centering your identity in Christ, and embracing God’s true calling for your life. We also discuss how past wounds and trauma shape our self-perception and how faith, silence, and solitude can help us reclaim our true selves.
Key Topics Covered:
What is the false self vs. the true self?
The three lies of the false self: I am what I have, I am what I do, I am what others say about me.
How social media and modern society reinforce false identities.
Signs you’re operating from your false self.
How past wounds shape our self-perception.
How silence, solitude, and faith can help us reclaim our true self.
Navigating fear and stepping outside of your comfort zone to embrace authenticity.
How living in your true self impacts your relationships and purpose.
Resources & Links:
Get Kevin’s book The Theology of C.S. Lewis: A Practical Summary of His Best Work on Amazon
Scriptures referenced: Galatians 2:20, Psalm 139, Psalm 23, Psalm 51:10
Join the Conversation:
We’d love to hear from you! Have you ever struggled with identity and authenticity? Leave a comment on Instagram @meliewilliams and let me know what resonated most with you in this episode.